Our reflection of the past, present
 and to a lesser degree our future, becomes more acute as we get older 
(at least for me!).  In time, memories become somewhat blurry, very much
 like an "out of focus" image in the view-finder of a camera.  However, 
the analogy almost stops here!  
Whereas bringing the image into focus in
 a camera is a simple physical process of either adjusting the lens 
position or moving closer or farther from the object of interest, 
bringing memories into focus is a very complicated matter. 
Without 
delving much into the complexity of the human brain (of which I only 
have a little knowledge), there are a few things in life that help us 
sharpen our memories.  To name a few: Photos and videos from the past, 
old letters, diaries (if kept), chats with old friends, revisiting 
places of the past. These aids may (or will) help in sharpening our 
memories of events, but, what about old feelings and how they inter-mesh
 with our present and possibly future feelings? 
This leads us to a yet 
more complex field of view for which sharpening our memories would 
necessitate the help of a psychiatrist or psychologist.
My message from the foregoing 
comments is: One's life can be complicated by the events we encounter in
 our journey of existence. Whereas events cannot be reversed, feelings 
can, to some degree, be manipulated to either make one's life easier or 
more difficult. 
A "flash" of the camera analogy comes back to me one 
more time: In the camera world a lens shutter adjusts the exposure level
 of an image.  In the human world, peace with others is determined by 
the level of peace with oneself!
Hani Badawi
March 19, 2012